Unrealistic expectations–those secret desires in our hearts that we cannot sometimes verbalize but expect nonetheless. Little do we know, these unreasonable expectations can eventually kill the marriage if we don’t manage them.
Hubby celebrated his birthday yesterday. We just had a simple lunch at home attended by immediately family members. I really did not have the time and the energy to whip up a feast for a lot of people, but I was able to muster enough strength to prepare our seafood lunch. You see, we had […]
Note: Written a couple of years ago. Honestly, I sometimes feel that I work too hard and there is really no just reward or compensation for myself. Most of my income goes to tithes and offerings first, then the rest are for my family, especially the needs of our little one. That means, I have […]
Okay, I have to admit, I have my crazy days. And it is also driving my husband crazy. You know, it is not the PMS thing anymore or the full moon thing. There are days that I just crack and vent it out. That is because I am highly emotional and I attach emotions to […]
My Facebook friends have by now noticed that I post cheesy love quotes on my wall almost every day, tagging my hubby. It is not just for show, it is real, because well, we really are still very much in love with each other. At the same time, I do that in order to make […]
“I married someone who… Loves me without restriction. Trusts me without fear. Wants me without demand. Accepts me for who I am.” I remember that for the most part of our 7.5 years of dating before we settled down, I was traveling all over the country and abroad, many times with men–young and old. That […]